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October 1 is National Day in China. The week following is one of China’s “Golden” weeks, where all of China is on Holiday. We decided to make a great escape to Kota Kinabalu in Sabah, located on the island of Kalimantan (also known as Borneo) in the eastern part of Malaysia. The city is located on the northwest coast of Borneo facing the South China Sea. Some new Yanlord friends were going here for holiday, also. It will be fun to meet up with the Szatkowski family on the beach. Betty and Jimmer have two children, Samantha (6) and Jack (4). Samantha is a first grader at Concordia, but in a different class than Emmy.

We decided to stay at the Shangri-La Rasa Ria Resort because it has a Nature Reserve, orangutan education center and is ecologically friendly. The resort is about 45 minutes from town, therefore, we would be spending most of our time at the resort.

The pool had a slide, therefore, it was a big hit. We spent many hours playing in the pool.

The slide was the best part of the pool. I would go down with Eleri and she would say, “more”. Elle’s new words for the week were “eat, eat, eat” and “otay” for okay. She must be growing as we heard eat, eat all the time.

The beach was a favorite place to dig in the sand. Both girls were very cautious of the ocean which was a blessing.

Sam & Emmy building in the sand

Emmy and Jim gave the boogie board “a go”. However, Emmy was done after a few face spray of salty water up the nose and in her eyes.

Of course, Elle had to try if her big sister can do it.

Jim enjoying an afternoon of riding the waves.

The hole is a funny story. Jack found the hole some older kids had left behind when they finished their beach play. Elle was busy playing and didn’t see the hole. When she saw Jack in the hole, she stopped and made a run for the hole.

Jack and Elle had a fun afternoon playing at the beach together. Jack is all boy, but he is very sweet with Elle.

We had one day that it poured hard rain all day. Jack, Emmy and Sam went to kid’s club all day and had a fun time making crafts and playing games. Eleri was not old enough to go to kid’s club. Jim, Elle and I spent the day inside at the lobby lounge.

The pool was closed the next morning due to all the rain. We decided it was a good time to go to the Nature Reserve. The Borneo wilderness begins just outside the resort. The Nature Reserve on the resort has rescued Orangutans, rescued animals who stay for a few years until they can return to the wild and thrive.

I didn’t pack any pants for Emersyn. Therefore, we put my pants on her, rolled the pants many times and gave her a belt. The mosquitos at the resort were bad enough. In the forest area, the little bugs may be able to carry us away! We did buy the best all natural mosquito spray I have ever own at the Reserve.

We don’t have too many photos of the orangutans. It was one of those camera battery issues…oh, no battery!

After the big rains, Emmy and Sam were playing in the sand pit near the pool. They both were doing the Chinese squat in the sand. When it was time to go in for baths, both girls were complaining their hands itched. We looked at their hands, but did see anything. We took our girls home for bath and dinner in as we had adult plans. We arranged babysitters for the kids. We booked the private seaside gazebo for dinner for the four of us – Jimmer, Betty, Jim and I.

To book the private gazebo, we would need to spend 340 ringgit ($90) per person. We told them no problem with food and drinks. During dinner, the babysitter and Emmy and Elle in their pjs came walking down the path to our gazebo. There was a tv issue so Daddy walked back to the room to fix it. About 20 minutes later, Betty started laughing to say, “sorry to tell you, but your kids are back”. This time Eleri was crying as the sitter was having troubles getting her to bed. She didn’t give Elle Pink and the lights were on. We drank and ate…and ate and drank more until our bellies were FULL. At the end of the night, there was an issue with our bill – apparently we didn’t eat and drink enough to meet the minimum amount. We all laughed because this would have been triple the bill in Shanghai. It was a very fun night.

The next morning, Emersyn had little red spots all over her hands. At breakfast, I found Betty to see if Sam had any spots. Samantha’s hands were covered in red spots. She had double the amount of Emmy. We took the girls to the nurse to discover sand fleas had bitten the girls in the sand pit. Sam’s feet were covered also. Emmy must of been standing on a patch of grass because her feet were clear. The girls had complained of itching hands! It took a few weeks for the bites to go away. Hum, maybe we only want a semi-ecologically friendly resort…spray the bugs!!

As we spent more time at the beach, Elle was more willing to go in the shallow ocean. The beach had a nice long sand bar which was perfect for the kids. But, mostly beach time is digging time.

Elle is small enough to go back home in the luggage.

The Disney channel is a treat. We don’t have cable or any American TV in Shanghai. The only TV the girls watch are dvds from the alley. After a full day of playing in the sun, Disney is just right for the end of a day.

The mosquitos are really bad at this time of the year. One night, Emmy and Sam left the door open while they were talking. Jim and I spent the next two hours killing mosquitos. We would spray the all natural spray and they would come flying out. Then, we would swat at them with a towel. Now, we rush in and out of the open door. Elle is allergic to the bites. She has been allergic to the bites since she was a baby.

Emmy got her hair braided one afternoon while Eleri was sleeping. We did the top half of Emmy’s hair, which was 14 braids. She needs more braids due to all that hair. When Eleri woke up, she pointed to her hair and said, “air, air, air.” (Elle has this British accent going with the way she pronounces words) She got 5 braids, also. She was very pleased! She loved to shake her head and have the beads hit her face.

The gang had a fun time together all week.

Jack, Elle, Sam & Emmy

We were able to stop in Hong Kong and see our friends. Emersyn, Jim and I all enjoyed seeing our dear friends that we shared four years with in Discovery Bay. Notice, Elle had no friends to see!!

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Jim has a saying about China and it is so true…”Anything is possible, nothing is easy and everything is a little bit broken”!!!  A few bit broken experiences in China. 
 
IKEA.  For those who know Ikea, add about double the people and children to the maze.  The Chinese go to Ikea as an “outing”.  The Chinese children jump and play on all the displays.  Elle REALLY needed a big girl bed as she was crying every night to get into Emmy’s bed.  I went to Ikea with Mr. Nie and Elle.  The bed was out of stock.  It would be in stock in 2-3 days.  Can I buy the bed today and have it shipped when it comes in??  Oh, no, that would be too easy.  I would have to go back out to Ikea, which is a 45-minute drive to see if it is in and then have it shipped.  Elle still has no big girl bed, but she has stopped caring.
 
Cash.  Banking is new for China; therefore, no one really has any trust in the system.  No checks are available with a bank account.  Everything is paid with cash.  Jim has a China Visa, but we then pay it off with cash at the bank.  Of course, a bit broken, one can only get 4000rmb/$US500 from the bank at one time.  The bank machines only give 100 rmb notes and only a limited amount of notes can pass through the machine.  So, each stop at the cash machine is for two transactions of 2000rmb.  One must wait 24 hours before trying the next day.  Now, we must horde cash along with food. 
 
Maintenance.  Our complex provides maintenance services.  We have the luxury item of an icemaker in our freezer.  Something we never had in Hong Kong.  Our ice machine was not making ice.  I call management.  Two Chinese men come to “look” at it.  One is tall and one is short.  They don’t speak English…fine we are in China.  They use mobile phones to talk to someone back at the office that speaks English.  They “look” at the icemaker, flip the on/off bar a couple times and say, “there -its fixed”.  I inform them I have already tried that and still no ice.  They will send someone else on Saturday.  On Saturday, a different man comes.  He actually pulls the ice machine out and puts it back in…should be fix.  Not fixed.  I call maintenance again.  They send the exact same tall/short men back to my apartment.  Again, they “look” at it, touch nothing and tell me they cannot fix it.  I can “look” at it too!  I then get a call to tell me it will cost me 5000rmb/$US500 to fix to get a new part.  Since they don’t know why it does not work (from looking, not touching anything), they will replace it.  Now, I am frustrated as my girls LOVE to eat ice, something they get from Daddy.  I say to Jim, “FIX MY ICE MACHINE!!!”  Being Jim and very resourceful, he goes on line to find the workings of the ice machine.  He prints it off and fixes the ice machine.  It was as simple as a wire not connecting.  We have ice!!  Now, the dishwasher is not working…do I have the patience for the maintenance men to come and “look” at it?

Deep breath…remember, nothing is easy…Nothing is easy!

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The girls got new wheels one Saturday.  Emmy got new pink roller blades and Elle got a new pink scooter.  When we got home, the girls were skating/scooting in the house.  Jim commented, “I can’t believe they are skating in the house”.  My reply, “because they can”  Jim laughed and agreed.  We have these big open spans perfect for roller blading in the house. 

Eleri was having a bit of a problem using her new scooter.

But, she is a problem solver and found a way to ride it around the apartment.

On Sunday, we took them outside to really ride them.

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We now have a driver.  Most expats living in China have a driver, as the Companies do not what to take responsibility for us driving ourselves, with good reason.  There is one important lesson of the road in China…cars are bigger and they do not brake for people.  The real purpose of the horn is to warn people “I am coming so get out of the way”.  No one really stays in their lane when turning, as it is a free-for-all.  Cars turning take the right of way with other cars and pedestrians. When walking and the little man is blinking green to walk, it really means you may walk with caution.  Cars turning right will honk at you to let them know they are coming through without slowing down.  We won’t even talk about motorbikes as they drive through all lights and on the sidewalk.  I recently was reading an article about an American getting a drivers license and taking the test.  Here is my favorite paragraph from her story.
 
A sample question from the driving test:
You are driving up to an intersection where there is no signal or policeman.  A man is crossing in the crosswalk.  You should:
a) blow your horn signaling the pedestrian to yield
b) Stop and give him the right of way
c) Continue into the intersection
 
Hard to believe the correct answer is actually (b), huh? What really happens in China is (a) & (c).

Our drivee, Mr. Nie, is very nice and helpful.  It is very odd having a driver and hard to get use to it.  It is odd calling him to go to the store, etc.  We have a grocery store about 15 minute walk (Emmy factor is about 20 minutes).  I will walk there just to get some exercise.  My lifestyle has changed so much.  In Hong Kong, we walked everywhere and here no one walks as everyone calls the driver.  Hum, must be why my jeans no longer fit as I walk ten steps from the lift to the van!!! 

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I took Emersyn, ELeri and Mimi to the Shanghai Aquarium. Eleri and I had so much fun, we thought it would be a fun way to spend the afternoon, again.

The girls had a fun afternoon looking at all the displays.

Emersyn, Mimi & Eleri

The girls LOVE these animals you ride around the open space.

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September 8th was my parent’s 55th wedding anniversary.  A “small” picnic had been planned for the celebration, kicking off at 11:30AM – exactly 55 years later.  Like any party my mother has a hand in, they can take on a life of there own.  The picnic grew to a luncheon for 35 friends at a local winery. 

I coordinated with my sisters to fly in from Shanghai to San Francisco, arriving at 8:30AM.  I freshened up and beat the honorees to the party and hid until the opportune moment.  I stepped out directly in front of my mother.  It was the first time I had ever seen her speechless!

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The speech I wrote for my parents:

OH, The Places you’re Still Going
Congratulations!
Today is your day
You’ve been to great places
Near and far away

Young newly weds
You started in 1951
And 55 years later
You’re still having fun

You’ve used the brains in your head
And worn out your shoes
You’ve done it all together
Picking a path that was smooth

You’ve been through the good times
You’ve been through the bad
But always there was
A smile to be had

You’ve been through sickness
And enjoyed your health
You started out poor
And have finished with wealth

Throughout the years
You’ve had so much fun
Some times it has rained
But, mostly there has been sun

Your 55 years together
And long happiness, too
We all follow your example
when we say “I do”

Three children you’ve raised
Seven grandchildren, too
But none of them like
To be told what to do

You’ve guided your clan
Some near and some far
At times, we’ve fallen flat
Other times, risen like a star

Mistakes we have made
big disappointments, too
But through it all you were there
To say, “I love you”

Some might say at your age
You should be dearly departed
But we all know
You are just getting started

At this point in life
There is no slowing down
We’re celebrating a mile stone
Not a sun down

Folks, you’ll still move mountains
So…

I don’t care if your hair is grey
Or if you think you are too old to play
Your off to greater places
Today is your day
New mountains are waiting
So…get on your way!!

On the way back, I filled my three empty suitcases with food supplies until our next stocking trip (or when we have US visitors).

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Eleri has really come into her own.  She loves setting the table and playing tea-party with her animals. 

She will get out all the food in the toy kitchen, set the table for a meal, then run off to find someone to join her.  She will grab you by the hand and say “cmere, cmere”, dragging you in to sit and join her.  She is quite the “cook”!

Elle is also learning mandarin.  She regularly says “Ni Hao” (hello) and “Xiexie” (thank you).

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Eleri and I went on our first adventure outing today. We went to the Shanghai Aquarium with Judith and her two children, Storey and Fisher. The aquarium is close to our complex near the Pearl Tower. The aquarium is very nice as my expectations were low. Of course, we are spoiled by the Monterey Bay Aquarium.

It was a fun afternoon out of the heat –

watching the fish…

Eleri, Storey & Fisher

jumping on the rocks…

keeping an eye on the jelly fish…

riding the moving walkway…

And, riding the animals…

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We have a lovely apartment on the 29th floor near the river.  We have a fabulous view from our flat.  It is a bit of a wait to get the lift – a two minute ride top to bottom. On days we are running out to catch the bus for school,  Jim will push for the lift while we get shoes on everyone.  Of course, I am not complaining after walking up five flights of stairs daily in HK.  Our apartment is so nice compared to Hong Kong.  We joke that we moved from the Bronx’s to Manhattan.  We went from 1, 000 sq to almost 3, 000 sq.  The girls love having so much room to play. 

We recently received our air shipment from California.  The girls wanted to make something from the boxes - now we have a “Secrit Club House” in our living room.  Jim and I joke that the clubhouse would have taken up our entire living area in HK.  In Shanghai, it is in the “South 40” behind the couch.

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Emmy’s first day of school was easy.  As parents, we worry more about the children and how they will adjust with such a move.  Emmy came home from her first day of school to announce she loved her new teacher, her new school and has new friends.  Ok, if life could be so simple as it is for a six year old.

The best part of Emmy’s new school is the number of children in her class is almost half of her class in Hong Kong.  With fewer children, the classroom has such freedom of moving about the room and visiting with friends.  The atmosphere in her class is so relaxed and enjoyable.

Emersyn’s teacher is Ms Poppell, with a name like that how can she not be lovely. At Concordia, the classes are mixed with grade 1 and grade 2. The students will have the same teacher for two years – Emmy is excited about this as she only has wonderful things to say about Ms Poppell.

Emersyn will ride the school bus to school. It is about a 20 minute – 30 minute ride, depending on traffic. After the long ride in Hong Kong off island, this will seem short. We put her on the bus the first day of school so she could establish a friend and a place to sit. We had been to new student orientation at the school and she knew her class room was right off the bus.

Emersyn’s backpack is almost as big as she is!

Eleri was not too happy that she didn’t get to go to school today. It is tough being the little sister.

Emmy continues to remain busy with after school activities.  She has settled on violin lessons, ice skating lessons, Brownies and soccer for this semester.  Maybe it is really School Daze!

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